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Crazy

I couldn’t have said it any better.

Crazy by MercyMe

Why I would I spend my life longing for the day that it would end..
Why would I spend my time pointing to another man..
Isn’t that crazy

How can I find hope in dying, with promises unseen..
How can I learn your way is better
In everything I’m taught to be..
Isn’t that crazy

I have not been called to the wisdom of this world..
But to a God who’s calling out to me..
And even though the world may think
I’m losing touch with reality
It would be crazy
To choose this world over eternity

And if I boast let me boast
Of filthy rags made clean
And if I glory let me glory
In my Savior’s suffering
Isn’t that crazy

And as I live this daily life
I trust you for everything
And I will only take a step
When I feel You leading me
Isn’t that crazy

I have not been called to the wisdom of this world..
But to a God who is calling out to me..
And even though the world my think
I’m losing touch with reality
It would be crazy
To choose this world over eternity

Call me crazy
You can call me crazy
Call me crazy

I have not been called to the wisdom of this world..
But to a God who is calling out to me..
And even though the world may think that
I’m losing touch with reality
It would be crazy, It would be crazy, It would be crazy
To choose this world over eternity

Isn’t That crazy..
Call me crazy
You can call me crazy
Call me crazy

from the CD “Spoken For” 2002

21

Where has the time gone?

It seems like only 21 days ago that I said, “I will.” Here we are today 21 years later and all that can be said is “Wow.”

Our relationship is incredible. The love I had on day 1 has been eclipsed by the immense amount of love I have for Amy today. I was obviously “seeing through a glass dimly.”

3 incredible kids later and a world away from all we knew as home and it is only greater, stronger and more intense than it has ever been.

Words that would describe our marriage from my point of view include; yes, laughter, fun, intense, urgent, adventure, travel, seeking, less, simple, giving, serving, growth…I could go on.

My wife is everything to me.

Thank you God for letting me experience life with her.

[quick thoughts on a special day]

 

The Day I Started AA

I began AA in 1999 the day I became the Executive Pastor of the church we were serving in Texas. The move from being the Student Pastor to leading a staff team was filled with excitement and tension. It was a new role with an existing team and I wanted to honor the needs of the pastor and still seek to be friends with the people I was serving with side by side with on staff.

I began to live out the leadership principles of advocacy and accountability.

This was the beginning of a philosophy I have utilized since with the teams of people I have led. I want to seek to be their biggest advocate to the Senior leader and to the groups of people we were accountable to as staff.  I made a promise to each staff person I would seek to advocate on their behalf and get everything they needed to accomplish the task(s) they were called toward. My door would be open to them to laugh, cry and moan about problems or anything else they needed to talk through or had questions that needed answered.

I also made them the promise that I would also be their biggest accountability.  I was willing to “fight” for what they needed, but they must be willing to answer questions that needed to be addressed. Sometimes the questions that were asked were clarifying the need, the purpose or the vision. Sometimes the questions were more direct as to why something had or had not happened as we agreed. There were times the questions were easy and other times they were extremely hard to answer. When the questions got hard to answer I could guarantee they were hard to ask from my point of view. The accountability part of the job was not always easy and sometimes not very fun, but was always necessary.

I believe the AA philosophy  is a good way to lead people and build a great team.

What is the driving leadership philosophy you work from each day? 

10 Commandments for Parents

  1. You will love your spouse
  2. You will tell your children “I love you.” each day.
  3. You will take care of yourself physically.
  4. You will take vacations with your children each year. (any size vacation will work)
  5. You will celebrate birthdays each year for each child.
  6. You will create and maintain family traditions.
  7. You will teach your children responsibility.
  8. You will teach your children to appropriately handle money.
  9. You will laugh with your children at least once a day.
  10. You will have dinner together as a family.

I created these for a class I just finished. We have tried to implement these “commandments” in our own family throughout our years of parenting.

Yes!!! I have broken my own commandments many times. But, these “commandments” have helped to keep me pointed in a direction with parenting of my own kids. I want so much to be a better parent for my children. They deserve it.

 

 

An Interaction with Steve Timmis

Well, sort of…

Steve Timmis is the director of Acts29 Western Europe. This particular church planting organization was started by Mars Hills Church in Seattle, WA, a church founded and pastored by Mark Driscoll. Timmis is the co-author of Total Church along with Tim Chester. He recently had an article posted on the Resurgence website that I found interesting and caused me to think about what we having been doing in our adopted city here in Western Europe. I thought is would be good to interact with Timmis’ ideas on How to Plant a Church.

Timmis list 5 principles for planting a church; 1) Preach the Gospel, 2) Understand the Context, 3) Connect with People, 4) Connect with the Right People and 5) Train and Appoint Leaders.

1) Preach the Gospel – I wish starting a church was as simple as moving into a city and beginning a worship service and preaching strong Gospel-centered messages. Timmis isn’t saying this is the first thing you do, but is saying it must be done. I would propose it be done throughout each of the principles. The Gospel must be central to everything we do and say. In other words it must be woven so deeply into our message that it can’t help but seep forth from our topics of conversation. So, even in our connecting upon first arrival into a city, region or country we must be able to express why and how the Gospel has brought us to town. Definitely at the point at which people begin to meet in homes, public spots or in a corporate gatherings the Gospel must be clearly spoken.

2) Understand the Context – This is a process that has no ending point. In a new culture you must “ramp up” quickly to learn the cultural cues in which you live. Whether it’s in the city of your birth or in another state, region or country. Everywhere is different that where you are today in someway. Everyone thinks different, dresses a little different and not everyone has the same practices. What are the things that make where you live unique and how does the Gospel speak to the people who live there. The only way in which learn these things is to go to number 3.

3) Connect with People – This seems like the easy thing to do. Go find people and get involved in their lives. But depending on the context you live in and the context you came from this could be difficult. If the place you are coming from is vastly different from you present surroundings you may draw a crowd quickly, but will you communicate clearly and effectively in a way that people will understand and not be offended. For the one who is “planting”  or “starting” a new work the connecting can seem to take too long. Taking time and learning to connect with the people and culture you now live in is vitally important to starting a new work. We presently are involved in various social groups, we are involved in our kid’s school and we meet with people individually weekly to listen and ask questions.

4) Connect with the Right People – I agree with Timmis on this point. We must be willing to let people know who we are and why we are in the city. For our team we have chosen to meet with local religious leaders from various Christian backgrounds to introduce ourselves. We want the local leadership to know we mean them “no harm” and we are not interested in “their people” being in the new work. We are here to bless the city by serving, growing the Kingdom of God by living, speaking and teaching the Gospel in both word and deed. We also want to be a blessing to their churches. How can we serve your local body through partnering together? We must work with people who have tenure in the city we have been sent to work and live in. We must learn from their history and wisdom. We also continually ask the Holy Spirit to guide us toward “persons of peace” who will lend their wisdom and influence to us for the sake of the Gospel in the city. We also continue to look for people who are influential in the local communities we live to develop relationships with people who influence the city.

5) Train and Appoint Leaders – As part of a city with existing churches we are seeking to bless the existing churches and para-ministries through partnerships and training. As we work together for kingdom purposes we model and train as we are allowed influence. Only through relationship will partnership with existing churches happen effectively. By allowing others to speak into our vision for a new church in the city with sending and multiplication in the DNA we are then given opportunity to train others. We seek to model missional living, effective evangelism, relational outreach and biblical models of community for those we walk among. Even as we are developing relationships with those who will one day cross the line of saving faith in Christ we seek to give them opportunity to serve and lead in ways that are appropriate.

These five principles for planting a church are solid, proven and effective. Thanks Steve for the opportunity to dialogue with your ideas.

 

 

Merry Christmas

Christmas is Real

That’s Christmas (Short Film) HD from St Helen’s Church on Vimeo.

Get Out of Your House

I enjoy my family and my personal space.

I really like relaxing at home and just closing the door to the world. I like to turn on the television, have a nice glass of iced tea and let the evening go by without thinking. This type of relaxing works for me after having conversations, solving problems and dealing with the work-a-day stuff we all face.

But, in the realm of developing relationships with those who we live near it STINKS.

How can we get to know others when we close our curtains, shut the doors and absorb the television or computer for hours at a time? There are relationships that need to be built all around us. Each of us have been given a level of influence in our workplace and the places we live that can only be enhanced or grown by spending time with people outside of “expected” or “programmed” time together.

Inviting people into our personal lives is time-consuming, it can be energy draining for some people and it’s risky to be vulnerable in relationship.

But, developing relationships is also life-giving, exciting and worth while to our life. We were created to have relationships and influence with others. If we hide from these opportunities we are the ones who lose out on what we were created for in this life.

What new relationships are you building?

Who are the people you are investing time with each week a way from work?

Risk It

I am inspired by people who take risks.

Risk doesn’t have to mean reckless though.

When I think of risk I think of assessing obstacles, counting the costs, knowing as much information as possible about the intended goal and making a knowledgable decision. Some might say “Where is the risk if you have walked through all of those steps?”

To take a risk so small that everything can be accounted for or to eliminate any chance of failure is no risk at all. Risk will always have failure as a possibility. There is a chance we won’t obtain the desired outcome.

To see a challenge that needs to be overcome, knowing there is a possibility of  failure and still risking it all for the perceived better way is inspiring to me. Doing what others think is impossible, unattainable or don’t desire to do is where I want to be in life.

What risks are you taking to accomplish the desired outcome?

F.I.D.O. Ain’t A Dog

I like dogs, just not in my house. We used to have a dog named Katie that went the way of other sick and ill pets. Se was a good companion and a playful little terrier when she wasn’t convulsing. But I digress…

F.I.D.O. is one of the mottos or sayings I have lived by for the past 20-something years. I wish I could remember exactly who said it to me or where I read it so I could give proper credit to those who deserve the accolades. The unique saying has helped me greatly in days of trouble also in days of basking in success.

F.I.D.O. has kept me pointed in a forward motion and thinking about what is coming down the road at me with full steam. After a failure or disappointment I have to prepare myself to move forward since life still happens in increments of seconds, minutes, hours and…you get the picture. I can’t sit and wallow too long in self-pity or despair. There is more to life and it is about to happen with me fully engaged or not.

This saying, F.I.D.O., has also served to focus my attention when I wanted to stop for too long and exalt in a great success or happening in my life or the organizations I have been a part of leading. We can’t live on the success of the past alone, we must be watching and walking because the sun rises tomorrow and we have to be ready to face the new challenges that are waiting for us.

What is F.I.D.O?

Forget

It

Drive

On!

Yes, I need to feel the pain of the setback, but not for too long.

Yes, I need to revel in the joy of the accomplishment, but not for too long.

Everyday is a new day and we must keep moving.

Have you face a F.I.D.O. moment recently?  

What is one of your mottos or philosophies?

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