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Young Adults Less Religious

kylegoen » 17 February 2010 » In Family, Influence, Leadership » Comments

From a USA Today article published today….

Millennials are significantly more likely than young adults in earlier generations to say they don’t identify with any religious group. Among Millennials, 26% cite no religious identity, compared with 20% for most members of Generation X (born 1965-1980) at the same ages, and 13% for most Baby Boomers (born 1946-1964) at those ages.

Worship attendance is sliding steadily, too: 18% of Millennials say they attend worship nearly every week or more often, vs. 21% of Gen Xers when they were in their 20s and 26% of Boomers at those ages. (Cathy Lyn Grossman, author)

Read the entire article here.

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Too Safe

kylegoen » 03 February 2010 » In Books, Influence, Mission » Comments

This is an incredible illustration of living too safe. The video is an older video of Francis Chan, but well worth the watch. Chan is the pastor of Conerstone Church in Simi Valley, California. He is also the author of Crazy Love and Forgotten God.

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Time Travel

kylegoen » 26 January 2010 » In Family, Influence, Photos » Comments

The Goen’s are always looking for ways to make family memories. I believe memories are gift from God.  In times or hardship and heartache great memories are often the things that help us make it through to the other side of our difficult situation.

On December 31, 1999 my family put together a time capsule that contained pictures, tracings of our children’s feet and hands, prices of the day and a letter detailing what our family was involved with at the time. I wish we could take credit for this idea, but in reality we probably read about it in a magazine. We did follow through with the idea though by sealing the tube and writing on the capsule “do not open until 2010.”  Our children were 9 months old, 3 years old and 5 years old at the time we assembled our little offering of memories. For the first couple of years our kids begged to open the time capsule around the new year and we would refuse to give in to the desire. My wife eventually put the capsule out of sight and away so we would not run across it often. The whole “out of sight and out of mind” phenomenon took over. In fact we actually forgot about the capsule until our recent move  when we ran across it and realized this is the year we get to open our surprise.

All of us had forgotten the articles we inserted into the tube so the opening was accompanied with anticipation. Last week after our Sunday lunch we opened the time capsule and laughed extremely hard at the little objects we carefully shoved into the tube. We remembered old stories about that particular time in our lives and couldn’t believe how time had flown. After a few minutes the kids gathered everything up and started toward the trash can to throw away ten years of memories. Amy and I both yelled “Stop!”  The little pieces of paper where full of memories we couldn’t part with as easily as they could.

Our kids are wanting to create another time capsule, but not for ten years from now, maybe three to five years from now.  I am thankful this little memory maker has meant something to them like it did for Amy and me. Get started creating memories with your family.

Goen Family Time Capsule

The anticipation…..

Who is this family?

Times have changed…so have prices.

Beautiful drawing of birds…very simple

Family Letter from the time capsule.

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Worth Reading

kylegoen » 18 January 2010 » In Influence, Leadership » Comments

And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of “interposition” and “nullification” — one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; “and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.”2

This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.

With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

And this will be the day — this will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with new meaning:

My country ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing.

Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim’s pride,

From every mountainside, let freedom ring!

And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true.

And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.

Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.

Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania.

Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado.

Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.

But not only that:

Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.

Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.

Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi.

From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

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MLK “I Have A Dream”

kylegoen » 18 January 2010 » In Influence, Leadership, Politics, Uncategorized » Comments

Once again I will post this video of one of the best speeches of all time. It was given by a man who tirelessly fought, marched and spoke out so his children and thousands like them could have a better life, a life of equality.

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Mohler on Haiti Earthquake

kylegoen » 14 January 2010 » In Influence, Leadership » Comments

You have heard by now or read the utter stupidity that flowed from Pat Robertson’s mouth this week concerning Haiti. I would like to point you to the statements of Dr. Albert Mohler. He is a fine spokesman for believers in this instance. Here is an extended excerpt from his article entitled “Does God Hate Haiti?”

Does God hate Haiti? That is the conclusion reached by many, who point to the earthquake as a sign of God’s direct and observable judgment.

God does judge the nations — all of them — and God will judge the nations. His judgment is perfect and his justice is sure. He rules over all the nations and his sovereign will is demonstrated in the rising and falling of nations and empires and peoples. Every molecule of matter obeys his command, and the earthquakes reveal his reign — as do the tides of relief and assistance flowing into Haiti right now.

A faithful Christian cannot accept the claim that God is a bystander in world events. The Bible clearly claims the sovereign rule of God over all his creation, all of the time. We have no right to claim that God was surprised by the earthquake in Haiti, or to allow that God could not have prevented it from happening.

God’s rule over creation involves both direct and indirect acts, but his rule is constant. The universe, even after the consequences of the Fall, still demonstrates the character of God in all its dimensions, objects, and occurrences. And yet, we have no right to claim that we know why a disaster like the earthquake in Haiti happened at just that place and at just that moment.

The arrogance of human presumption is a real and present danger. We can trace the effects of a drunk driver to a car accident, but we cannot trace the effects of voodoo to an earthquake — at least not so directly. Will God judge Haiti for its spiritual darkness? Of course. Is the judgment of God something we can claim to understand in this sense — in the present? No, we are not given that knowledge. Jesus himself warned his disciples against this kind of presumption.

Why did no earthquake shake Nazi Germany? Why did no tsunami swallow up the killing fields of Cambodia? Why did Hurricane Katrina destroy far more evangelical churches than casinos? Why do so many murderous dictators live to old age while many missionaries die young?

Does God hate Haiti? God hates sin, and will punish both individual sinners and nations. But that means that every individual and every nation will be found guilty when measured by the standard of God’s perfect righteousness. God does hate sin, but if God merely hated Haiti, there would be no missionaries there; there would be no aid streaming to the nation; there would be no rescue efforts — there would be no hope.

The earthquake in Haiti, like every other earthly disaster, reminds us that creation groans under the weight of sin and the judgment of God. This is true for every cell in our bodies, even as it is for the crust of the earth at every point on the globe. The entire cosmos awaits the revelation of the glory of the coming Lord. Creation cries out for the hope of the New Creation.

In other words, the earthquake reminds us that the Gospel of Jesus Christ is the only real message of hope. The cross of Christ declares that Jesus loves Haiti — and the Haitian people are the objects of his love. Christ would have us show the Haitian nation his love, and share his Gospel. In the midst of this unspeakable tragedy, Christ would have us rush to aid the suffering people of Haiti, and rush to tell the Haitian people of his love, his cross, and salvation in his name alone.

Everything about the tragedy in Haiti points to our need for redemption. This tragedy may lead to a new openness to the Gospel among the Haitian people. That will be to the glory of God. In the meantime, Christ’s people must do everything we can to alleviate the suffering, bind up the wounded, and comfort the grieving. If Christ’s people are called to do this, how can we say that God hates Haiti?

If you have any doubts about this, take your Bible and turn to John 3:16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. That is God’s message to Haiti.

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The Ivey’s, Amos and Haiti

kylegoen » 13 January 2010 » In Influence » Comments

The Ivey’s are friends of ours and this is their unique journey and the Haiti tragedy. I hope you will get involved with Haiti relief.

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Christian Persecution in the Wall St. Journal

kylegoen » 08 January 2010 » In Influence, Martyr, Sending Church » Comments

Check out this article in the Wall Street Journal on Islamic persecution of Christians.

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Wed. Nights @LifePoint

kylegoen » 07 January 2010 » In Blog, Influence, LifePoint Church » Comments

Last night at LifePoint I began a new teaching series using “Living By The Book” by Howard Hendricks. I am posting the note-taking sheet here and you can access the audio portion of the teaching through our media player. My hope is if you are in Smyrna you will make it a priority to be involved for the next three weeks as we learn how to study the Bible so we can be well equipped as a Christ follower.

SESSION 1: OBSERVATION

A.  The                      of

1.  Psalms 119:18

2.  “You see, but you do not observe.”  Sherlock Holmes

Learn to ___________________

1.  As you read, pay attention to the ____________

2.  Read God’s Word as for the ____________________

3.  Read the Bible as a ______________________

B.  Six                      of Observation

1. ____________

a.  The names

b.  What is said about the person?

c.  What does the person say?

2.  _____________

a.  What is happening in the text?

b.  What are the events and order?

c.  Some cases:  What is the argument, point, question, answer?

3.  _____________

a.  Location

b.  Where are they from and where are they going?

c.  Where is the writer?  Where were the original readers?

4.  _____________

a.  Time

b,  In relation to this, when did other events in Scripture occur?

c.  Mark 1:35

5.  _____________

a.  unlimited number of questions

b.  examples: Why here?   Why not there?  Why does it lead or follow?  Why did they say that?  Why are they silent?

c.  Why questions dig for meaning.

6. ______________

a.  What difference would it make if I were to apply this truth?

b.  Do something, respond, action

C.  Practice with a verse:

1.  Who/Names (people involved)

2.  When/Cause and Effect

3.  What/Terms/Context

4.  Where/Places

5.  Why

6.  So What


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Is the X in Xmas Anti-Christ?

kylegoen » 22 December 2009 » In Influence, Leadership » Comments

R.C. Sproul has a good blogpost on this topic. I hope this helps those folks who think we are taking Christ out of Christmas.

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