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I get asked often how exactly did you guys get to Brussels. The usual response is “We flew British Air.”  After this lame attempt at a joke I give them a small sketch of the process that it takes for a church to send 3 families to another city to begin living, working and integrating into the fabric of a new city.

Well, we want to encourage those of you who are thinking about living cross culturally to grab someone from your church and attend The Sending Church Round Table. LifePoint Church, Smyrna, TN and The Upstream Collective are hosting a gathering of churches, mission thinkers and practitioners for 2 days of “how-to” send out of the local church.

Check out the Round Table website and take your team, your pastor and your mission guy/girl from your local church and join the conversation concerning the sending church and what it means to be sent.

Let’s Meetup – Updated

My family has lived in our city for almost  eighteen months. When we moved here we were wanting to meet new people and be intentional about meeting people who may not have heard the Gospel or may not have a relationship with someone who knows Jesus. We had been told it was very difficult to break into relationships in this city with nationals especially if you don’t speak the local language.

I remembered back to one of the very first gatherings I was in with a group of guys from The Upstream Collective and how they recommended a website to us called Meetup. They explained how it worked and spoke of how people in Western Europe were used to meeting people online and making new friendships. I honestly walked away from that meeting thinking, “This is weird. I don’t think I could ever do that kind of thing.”

After moving and seeing no good way to meet people in the Western European city I am living in, I decided to give this website thingy a try. I went to the website to look for a group I might be interested in “meeting up” with in my area. There weren’t many that appealed to me personally. If I was going to try something new I wanted it to be something that I enjoyed. I decided to begin a Meetup group around coffee and conversation. I filled out the profile to begin a group and paid the registration fee for starting a group and the next thing I knew I had launched a new Meetup group.

Over the next several weeks people began to register for the coffee and conversation group. First there were two (2) then three (3) people and the next thing I know there are 25 and then 30 people who were interested in meeting and having a talk. Wow! People wanted to get together and meet other people they didn’t necessarily know.

The very first Meetup happened at a local coffee shop on a Sunday morning. I had the opportunity to set the time and the place we would meet to have coffee and talk. I chose Sunday morning at 10:30 am as the time for our gathering. We had eight (8) people come together to talk about life, work and to laugh together. Our group was a mix of internationals and nationals talking together in a common language.

We now have over 200 people registered as apart of the coffee and conversation Meetup group. We meet together once a month and new people attend each time we gather. There are usually around 30 people at each meetup. This has been a good way to meet new people and begin “investing” into the lives of others. I use this time together as a way to meet people and get to know them personally. We do not use this meetup time as a time to “pound” our beliefs. We are open about our worldview, why we live in the city and intentional about building and investing into the relationships. We are trusting the rest to the One who sent us here.

Here’s an understatement…I am really glad I tried something new.

 

 

 

Youth Ministry in Brussels

I think students in my new culture are pretty much like the students in my former culture.

Guys like girls.

Girls like guys.

They love laughing.

Youth like to hangout with each other.

They enjoy doing fun things with each other youth.

They like laser tag.

They like bowling.

They enjoy eating pizza, spaghetti and drinking Cokes.

They like movies.

They love music.

They play sports.

They have parental problems.

They experiment with alcohol and drugs.

They worry about how others perceive them.

They want  to go to university.

They want an iPhone.

They are on Facebook.

And so many other ways they are just like any other kid. Yes, they are differences. But, at the core just the same, they are in need of real life, real hope, real joy, real peace and a very real Savior.

Please remember our team, we have 5 secondary students (gr.6-12) here today and 3 more waiting to get here.

A few pictures of Youth Ministry @LifePoint Church Brussels.

Fun hanging out together.

Bowling shoes are horrible in any country.

Laser Tag anyone.

A Road Less Traveled

LifePoint Brussels is a unique community of faith in the city. We are choosing a road less traveled in our city.

We have people in our community who speak English and French. Some of the people in our gatherings are bi-lingual and some are not. Many of the people who attend are English speakers only or French speakers only in their communication. So, living in a city that is multi-lingual we decide to utilize both languages in our gatherings on Sunday. We sing in English and French. We pray in English and French. We teach in English and French. We have discussion groups in English and French. You get the picture I think.

When words are projected on the screen they are in both languages. We have Bibles in both languages. We will sing a song or two in English and then sing a song in French. Each of the songs are translated so everyone knows what we are singing about and who we are singing to.

We do not translate prayers typically. We let the person who is praying speak in their heart language and then we join them by agreeing our heart language.

The only thing today we directly translate is the teaching time. We attempt to have “dynamic translation.”  We will give the teaching material to the translator early in the week so they will have time to read and understand the path we will walk on Sunday. We follow the path pretty closely but take the opportunity to stray from the notes when needed. So, we do not speak or read from a manuscript.

So far things have gone smoothly. We are seeking to reach people who speak French as their “mother tongue” through those who are bi-lingual. These people will tell their friends what they are learning and experiencing and then invite their French-speaking family and friends to join them in the exploration of community and faith.

The reason I commented that we are taking a road less traveled is because most churches in the city I am aware of utilize only one language. They will typically chose French, Dutch, the language of their home country or the international expat language, English. We are attempting to utilize 2 of these languages, English and French, in our gathers. It’s challenging at times, but we know we are led by the Spirit today to move in this direction.

Café Anglais

I am not an English teacher. I can barely speak English the way it was designed to be spoken. But, I can develop relationships and help people.

One of the most fun things I get to do in Bruxelles is co-lead 2 English conversation groups 2x’s a week called Café Anglais. It isn’t an original idea we are doing, in fact, someone who labored extremely to get this thing started handed it to us. We are trying to be faithful to “run with the ball” that was handed to us.

Each Monday and Wednesday evening my wife and I get on a Metro, a tram and a bus to go meet on a university campus with students and faculty members to have English conversation. We are there to help university students improve their educational, business and medical English. Most are studying in a field that will one day require them to utilize English and they desperately want to improve.

I love getting to spend around 12-14 fourteen weeks a semester with the same people each week talking about life, family and worldview ideas. Amy and I have developed very good friends from our Café Anglais groups. We often share meals together and go to coffee with our “Café Anglaisers” outside of our organized times to meet. It is during these times outside of our scheduled meeting times that we have the opportunity to talk about matters of the heart and more about who we are as followers of Christ.

Café Anglais is 1) about serving the needs of others and 2) about developing relationships. From there, we seek to be faithful to walk through any doors that are open to us as we talk about why we live in the city and what we are trying to accomplish.

Party Time

LifePoint BRU is committed to hosting dinner parties once a month as a way to connect with people and develop relationships. Our parties are designed so we can invite people we are meeting who are not involved in church to join us for a meal together. Our dinner times are informal, casual and full of laughter. The dinners usually last a couple of hours each time we get together. Each person and family usually brings something to contribute to the meal and the community.

Parties, in general,  have been a great introduction to our community of faith. Our new friends can see who we are and we have time to begin relationships that we hope to see grow in the coming days.

Crazy

I couldn’t have said it any better.

Crazy by MercyMe

Why I would I spend my life longing for the day that it would end..
Why would I spend my time pointing to another man..
Isn’t that crazy

How can I find hope in dying, with promises unseen..
How can I learn your way is better
In everything I’m taught to be..
Isn’t that crazy

I have not been called to the wisdom of this world..
But to a God who’s calling out to me..
And even though the world may think
I’m losing touch with reality
It would be crazy
To choose this world over eternity

And if I boast let me boast
Of filthy rags made clean
And if I glory let me glory
In my Savior’s suffering
Isn’t that crazy

And as I live this daily life
I trust you for everything
And I will only take a step
When I feel You leading me
Isn’t that crazy

I have not been called to the wisdom of this world..
But to a God who is calling out to me..
And even though the world my think
I’m losing touch with reality
It would be crazy
To choose this world over eternity

Call me crazy
You can call me crazy
Call me crazy

I have not been called to the wisdom of this world..
But to a God who is calling out to me..
And even though the world may think that
I’m losing touch with reality
It would be crazy, It would be crazy, It would be crazy
To choose this world over eternity

Isn’t That crazy..
Call me crazy
You can call me crazy
Call me crazy

from the CD “Spoken For” 2002

An Interaction with Steve Timmis

Well, sort of…

Steve Timmis is the director of Acts29 Western Europe. This particular church planting organization was started by Mars Hills Church in Seattle, WA, a church founded and pastored by Mark Driscoll. Timmis is the co-author of Total Church along with Tim Chester. He recently had an article posted on the Resurgence website that I found interesting and caused me to think about what we having been doing in our adopted city here in Western Europe. I thought is would be good to interact with Timmis’ ideas on How to Plant a Church.

Timmis list 5 principles for planting a church; 1) Preach the Gospel, 2) Understand the Context, 3) Connect with People, 4) Connect with the Right People and 5) Train and Appoint Leaders.

1) Preach the Gospel – I wish starting a church was as simple as moving into a city and beginning a worship service and preaching strong Gospel-centered messages. Timmis isn’t saying this is the first thing you do, but is saying it must be done. I would propose it be done throughout each of the principles. The Gospel must be central to everything we do and say. In other words it must be woven so deeply into our message that it can’t help but seep forth from our topics of conversation. So, even in our connecting upon first arrival into a city, region or country we must be able to express why and how the Gospel has brought us to town. Definitely at the point at which people begin to meet in homes, public spots or in a corporate gatherings the Gospel must be clearly spoken.

2) Understand the Context – This is a process that has no ending point. In a new culture you must “ramp up” quickly to learn the cultural cues in which you live. Whether it’s in the city of your birth or in another state, region or country. Everywhere is different that where you are today in someway. Everyone thinks different, dresses a little different and not everyone has the same practices. What are the things that make where you live unique and how does the Gospel speak to the people who live there. The only way in which learn these things is to go to number 3.

3) Connect with People – This seems like the easy thing to do. Go find people and get involved in their lives. But depending on the context you live in and the context you came from this could be difficult. If the place you are coming from is vastly different from you present surroundings you may draw a crowd quickly, but will you communicate clearly and effectively in a way that people will understand and not be offended. For the one who is “planting”  or “starting” a new work the connecting can seem to take too long. Taking time and learning to connect with the people and culture you now live in is vitally important to starting a new work. We presently are involved in various social groups, we are involved in our kid’s school and we meet with people individually weekly to listen and ask questions.

4) Connect with the Right People – I agree with Timmis on this point. We must be willing to let people know who we are and why we are in the city. For our team we have chosen to meet with local religious leaders from various Christian backgrounds to introduce ourselves. We want the local leadership to know we mean them “no harm” and we are not interested in “their people” being in the new work. We are here to bless the city by serving, growing the Kingdom of God by living, speaking and teaching the Gospel in both word and deed. We also want to be a blessing to their churches. How can we serve your local body through partnering together? We must work with people who have tenure in the city we have been sent to work and live in. We must learn from their history and wisdom. We also continually ask the Holy Spirit to guide us toward “persons of peace” who will lend their wisdom and influence to us for the sake of the Gospel in the city. We also continue to look for people who are influential in the local communities we live to develop relationships with people who influence the city.

5) Train and Appoint Leaders – As part of a city with existing churches we are seeking to bless the existing churches and para-ministries through partnerships and training. As we work together for kingdom purposes we model and train as we are allowed influence. Only through relationship will partnership with existing churches happen effectively. By allowing others to speak into our vision for a new church in the city with sending and multiplication in the DNA we are then given opportunity to train others. We seek to model missional living, effective evangelism, relational outreach and biblical models of community for those we walk among. Even as we are developing relationships with those who will one day cross the line of saving faith in Christ we seek to give them opportunity to serve and lead in ways that are appropriate.

These five principles for planting a church are solid, proven and effective. Thanks Steve for the opportunity to dialogue with your ideas.

 

 

Sending Church Skype Notes

What are the critical training components for a team?

Training is definitely church and team specific….one size does not fit all.
The beauty to Sending Church…the church is taking an active role and part in the training.

Equipping

  1. Spiritual Maturity  growing in community (Catholic, Islam, Christology, Personal Evangelism)
  2. One Year together in community worship and study

This would allow us to grow together, learn together, serve together, get into arguments and resolve them, families get to know each other

FriendRaising

  1. Kent Jones of To Every Nation (TX) www.toeverynation.net was our trainer
  2. Books -
  3. Getting Sent – Peter Sommer
  4. People Raising – William Dillon
  5. Friend Raising – Betty J. Barnett

Purpose to communicate the vision and need for a reproducing sending church in the countries we are sent to.

Team Building

  1. StregnthFinders
  2. Counseling (Marriage/Financial)
  3. Serving Together (great team building)
  4. Arguments/Resolutions
  5. Team Traveled to Brussels together

If team/personnel issues are the #1 factor for people leaving the field…we wanted to spend lots of time working on our team dynamics. If we are a strong team we can work through the other stuff. Whatever it is…

Language Training

  1. 5 months of basic language for orientation (local tutor)
  2. Many purchased Rosetta Stone, used podcasts and other resources
  3. Commitment to learning French while on the field

major value for our team…we are relational and if we cannot communicate it will be more difficult.

+++there is more that goes on in language learning than learning a language…the Lord shapes you..dependence, struggle, sufficiency found in Him

Outside Training Partner

  1. Upstream Collective

Expertise in Western Europe Context to help us think through Strategy and make suggestions to our team
Our church thinks intentional, missional, strategic, but we knew we needed to have someone with the exper. on the field where we were going. Plus filling in the gaps and blind spots and challenging our thinking in many areas.

They visited with our team every 4 months and prepared us for our scouting trips as a team.

Pre-Field Training for Adults and Kids

  1. Designed by church and training partner

So huge to have a partner that we could trust as we both designed the elements to our pre-field training.
Kids training was incredible – mk2mk.org

 

What are other essential trainings you would add for a team being sent by the local church?

Sending The Church…

to be the church where there is no church.

I believe in it.

But, this tag-line carries a lot of meaning. Obviously, one of the first questions must be what do we mean when we say church. The church as we mean it is about people not buildings, though buildings are necessary for the church (people) to meet together in many parts of the world. Whether it is a home, a café, or an auditorium buildings are useful, but not the church.

 

 

The tag-line can mean sending the church (people) literally to where there are no believers in a region of the world. It can mean sending the church (people) to an area of the city where a church is not existing presently. It can also mean sending the church (people) into the world to be a visible expression of Christ to a community of friends and associates.

In the country I reside there are many churches that exist already so why have we been sent to be the church where there is no church?

As I have thought about this over the last several months I have come to realize we are sent here to be a church that lives out the message of Christ incarnationally among of a people where churches are already found. We have been sent to reproduce disciples by the power of the Spirit. To reproduce leaders can live incarnationally among their sphere of influences in a way that will lead to new churches being birthed. We have been sent with intentionality at the heart of who we are. The DNA is sending, reproducing, incarnational living, multiplication, leaders, disciples and new generations. We have been sent to plant, partner and reproduce.

Being the church where there is no church in my context is more than a church building in a community with no physical gathering place. It’s more than groups of people who are meeting each week doing the same things time and again.

It is about sending healthy leaders to plant a healthy, reproducing body of believers who are reproducing and sending a new generation of disciples and leaders.

Sounds good in a blogpost and makes a great tag-line…but it is difficult, risky and dependent on the Spirit. Where else would we want to be?

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